Thinking back to the week when I married my lovely wife, I can remember a friend telling me to place a notch on the headboard every time I had sex and then every year following, cross off one of those marks each time I had sex again. He was more than happy to relay the fact I would not have more sex than in my first year of marriage. In fact he was more than happy to share the detail regarding sex in marriages.
Having to live in a sexless marriage or relationship is kinda like window shopping for a Ferrari. You’re memorized by it’s sheer beauty and elegance. And you imagine slamming the pedal down and roaring down the highway with the wind ripping through your hair. But, odds are you will never be able to sit behind that magnificent machine… And if you do, the ride will be short lived.
Sex ends in marriages for lots or reasons.
- Time Constraints
- Children
- Job Duties
- Lost of passion
- And so many more
Raise your hand right now if you think you are having the amount of sex you deserve. A majority of you probably couldn’t get your hand past your shoulder and that’s okay. I can admit I would love to have more of it with my wife…
And if you have noticed, when sex slows down in a marriage, it’s like the passion has been sucked right out your relationship.
Two things need to occur to reverse the trend of sexless nights.
- Show more passions towards your wife. Remind her she is beautiful, remind her she is special. Remind her why she married you.
- Become more confident and capable in bed. There is not a woman alive who will not crave more sex when you give them an orgasm. They know how to make themselves climax through masturbation and the use of a vibrator. But what they really desire is toe curling, leg trembling orgasms only you can deliver. And once you give it to her. You can bet your sex life will increase.
- R.T.
