The let me share with you three tips you’ll leave her spine tingling and her legs trembling in pleasure.

Hell…most men really struggle when it comes to turning a mattress in a roller coaster of ecstasy for woman. And it’s not our fault, not like we were taught secret strategies behind close doors.

So…

We keep trying different techniques in hopes we finagle our way to success.

Well let’s start you off by reading this article.

10 Instant Tips For Better Making Love

If you want to improve your making love skills then Get In The (Erogenous) Zone, Guys, while you’re heading for the obvious – lips, breasts, clitoris – don’t overlook these other erogenous zones, this may keep things more exciting and more fun while making love for both of you.

TONGUE ROLEX Lightly graze the inside of her wrists with your tongue. Most guys overlook this ‘hot spot’, and most women adore the attention. Follow up with soft kisses in the same area and, if you like, work your way up her arm.

DRACULA WAS A SMART DUDE Come up behind her, push her hair away from the back of her neck, and deliver soft, warm kisses. Watch for goose bumps and listen for moaning – good indicators that you’re on the right track!

BEND AN ELBOW The soft skin on the delicate curve on the inside of a woman’s elbow is packed with nerve endings. Kiss her there and watch her whole body shiver as the sensations go through her.

HAIR RAISING Scalp massage is stimulating to the brain AND other parts of the body. Running your fingers through your partner’s hair creates a series of wonderful sensations. And, more importantly this brain tickle causes her body to release endorphins, which dramatically affect her sense of calm and well being for the better.

THE BEE’S KNEES If you’re stroking your partner’s legs, pay particular attention to the area behind her knees. Massage it gently to start because some women are overly sensitive and get ticklish, rather than turned-on. If her response lets you know that she’s enjoying what you’re doing, replace your fingers with your lips and tongue.

EAR-GASM Nibble and gently suck on her earlobe, then lick the centre of her ear. Doing this alone with a certain facility (and with a certain woman) can bring her to orgasm. This phenomenon is called the auricologenital reflex and occurs as a result of a nerve inside the ear canal being stimulated. (Take it easy – that’s our last science lesson!).

FANCY FOOTWORK Women have pedicures for more than just the colour. A foot message is sensual and, if the right person is doing it, extremely sexual. Start by applying light pressure on your partner’s sole and heel Next, you can gently stroke her toes and ankle.

Tip within a Tip: The hollow area on the sides of her ankle, between the anklebone and the Achilles tendon, is an acupressure point believed to help restore sexual energy. Don’t miss it.

FROM ONE SET OF LIPS TO THE OTHER Get to know the frenulum — that little bit of centre tissue that connects the upper lip and the gums. This is a pressure point that sends messages straight to a woman’s private parts. Gently suck on her upper lip and allow your lower lip to caress her frenulum. If she likes it, you’ll see (and feel) a reaction immediately.

ABOVE AND BEYOND THE CALL OF BOOY Apply a gentle touch–just barely grazing the skin–to the sacrum, the area of her lower back just above the tailbone. As her skin heats up under your hand, apply increasing pressure to either side of her spine`but not directly on it. Then move lower to massage the tops of her buttocks. Try it. She’ll like it.

EXPANDING THE ZONE When properly stimulated, a woman’s entire body becomes an erogenous zone , sending sexual electrical impulses to the brain from such likely places as the sides of the legs, the chest, even the elbows. Simply glide your hands down her whole body from her armpits to her legs, then back up again. Do it right, and she’ll squirm with pleasure. Hot stuff.

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Not the greatest tips when you get down to the mechanics of the female orgasm so let me add a couple of tips.

1. Stay in rhythm with her. When thrusting make sure you are making contact with the clitoris and you use the same speed. Woman like the same speed and changing can upset the sensations coursing through her body.
2. It’s not all physical…the emotional connection, the setting and her mood will also lend it’s self to better orgasms,
3. The clitoris is sensitive so you shouldn’t tweak on it like lug nut. Don’t make direct contact with it, use the area around it stimulate an orgasm in you woman.

I found this article today and I want you to read it and then I’ll discuss it with you further at the end.

Female Orgasm Remains an Evolutionary Mystery

By Brandon Keim

After baffling biologists for decades, the female orgasm has resisted yet another attempt to explain its elusive evolutionary origins.

A survey of orgasmic function in thousands of twins found none of the statistical patterns expected if female orgasm is just a coincidental byproduct of natural selection on its male counterpart, as has been suggested.

“The evolutionary basis of human female orgasm has been subject to furious scientific debate, which has recently intensified,” wrote University of Queensland geneticist Brendan Zietsch and Pekka Santtila of Finland’s Abo Akedemi University in a Sept. 3 Animal Behavior article. “These results challenge the byproduct theory of female orgasm.”

While the male orgasm is, in evolutionary and practical terms, a fairly straightforward thing — it makes men want to have sex more often, thus continuing their lineage, and is achieved with ease — the female orgasm is a far trickier beast.

Unlike male orgasm, which is found across the primate spectrum, female orgasm has skipped some species. (Lady gibbons, for example, are out of luck.) In humans, men are far more likely to experience orgasm than women, of whom one in 10 don’t ever experience it.

That imbalance runs contrary to traditional explanations of female orgasm: that it strengthens bonds between mates and thus improves the care received by their children, or that the ability to elicit orgasm indicates a male’s virility, or that underlying physiological processes somehow improve reproductive success.

After all, if female orgasms are an important evolutionary adaptation, they should be easier to attain. Also perplexing is that many women require clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm, not penetrative action. If female orgasms were meant to encourage sex, the opposite ought to be true.

All this has led to an alternative explanation, popularized in Elisabeth Lloyd’s popular 2005 book The Case of the Female Orgasm: That there’s no adaptive purpose. Women simply happen to share biology with men, for whom orgasm is important. It’s an accidental byproduct, like men’s nonlactating nipples.

But while this idea is plausible, it hasn’t yet been rigorously explored. So Zietsch and Santtila devised a test. They surveyed 1,803 pairs of opposite-sex twins and 2,287 pairs of same-sex twins, asking them how often and how easily they reached orgasm. If female orgasm is evolutionarily connected to male, opposite-sex twins should have similar orgasmic function.

But that’s not what they found. Instead, while orgasmic function was genetically shared in same-sex twins — brother tended to share function with brother, or sister with sister — the relationship vanished in opposite-sex twins, though both share the same amount of genetic material. The underlying genetics, and thus the underlying evolutionary pressures, thus appear to differ.

“This does not support the hypothesis that female orgasm is maintained only as a byproduct of selection on the male orgasm,” wrote Zietsch and Santtila.

However, the researchers warn that their findings aren’t yet definitive. Self-reported surveys aren’t methodologically airtight, and a recent Journal of Sexual Medicine study by Zietsch “found near-zero correlations between women’s orgasm rates and 19 other evolutionarily relevant traits.”

Those findings contradict the latest study, and suggest female orgasm might be a byproduct after all. It might also have been evolutionarily important to humanity’s ancestors, but irrelevant now.

“The evolutionary basis of female orgasm is both important and unknown,” wrote Zietsch and Santtila. “Much more work needs to be done.”

Article Source: Wired.com

Man does this research explain a whole lot of nothing.

If the best biologist’s in the world can decipher the female orgasm, how the hell are common men, like you and me supposed to figure it out.

Well through practice and techniques and good ole’ trial and error, we can figure out what our partner wants.

And want she want’s really trumps all research if you make her have an orgams.

- R.T.

Check out these tips for more female orgasm tutorial.

• How to Orally Please Your Woman
• Do Wealthier Men Give Women More Orgasms
• 3 Hot and Sensual Ways to Spice Up a Relationship

Now imagine the nasty little tricks she’d turn for you as an act of repayment.

Go ahead and read this article I found and as a reward for staying tuned to it. I will reveal a secret  you use to learn how to orally pleasure your woman tonight.

By David Strovny

Giving Her Oral Sex

What You Need To Know

• Never bite a woman’s vagina – ever.
• Use your tongue and fingers to maximize stimulation.
• Always have an exit strategy in case you panic down there.

“When you begin to give her oral sex, it’s important to start slowly.”

Women often complain about men’s ability to perform cunnilingus or, as it’s more commonly called, oral sex. There are hundreds of men who write us asking for advice on how to give her oral sex. We can only imagine the millions of others who stand like a possum caught in headlights when it comes to the task. As such, we thought it was time to give readers a more in-depth look into the vagina and the amazing things that guys (and gals) can do to it with their tongues.

The following oral sex techniques are a simple guide to teaching all of you the basics of “eating out.”
If you’re not much of a vaginal vacuum and are hesitant to try oral sex because of odors or whatever other preconceived notions that you have, ensuring that she has just come out of the shower will ease your tension and you’ll be able to let loose orally. There are men who stand their ground and absolutely refuse to perform oral sex; we suggest you get over yourself, because your girl likes to receive oral sex as much as you consider a good blow job a part of foreplay.

Tongue to lips

Any licking, gentle sucking or all-around moisture from the mouth to the vaginal entrance, the labia (lips) or the clitoris will surely make you popular with your flavor of the evening.

When you begin to give her oral sex, it’s important to start slowly. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. What she won’t like is an overachiever who jumps right in with an aggressive tongue. Pretend that her entire vagina is an ice-cream cone with three scoops of your favorite flavor; if you don’t like ice cream, we’re sure you can still appreciate the metaphor. Use your tongue to lick her vagina from its entrance up to the clitoris. Remember to chill out and relax; enjoy yourself and don’t get tense.

Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer labia on one side. Once you’ve done that, draw her lips into your mouth and massage them with your tongue. And since the other side will probably get jealous, move on to the other side afterward.

Oral exploration

Were you aware that the tongue is the body’s strongest muscle? Well imagine what you could do with your tongue if you were giving her oral sex. Since you have more control with your tongue than with your penis, the sensations will drive her crazy.

Not only is your tongue naturally lubricated with saliva, you can maneuver it in ways that a penis never could. So why not use your tongue to have sex with her? Thrust your tongue in and out of her vagina, and take a break from time to time to explore her insides.

While you’re roaming around down there, vary your cadence and the firmness of your tongue. Use your firm, flexed tongue for pinpoint accuracy, such as when you circle the clitoris, and use a limber, flat tongue to cover more ground.

Remember to continuously return to her clitoris since most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation — especially when it comes to oral sex. However, don’t apply too much pressure to her clitoris right away because it may irritate her and turn her off. Start out gently and increase pressure and speed according to her body language.

Above all, have fun down there when you’re giving her oral sex, and keep her on her toes (or off as the case may be).

Intense vaginal volume

When you have her as hot as a lioness in heat, the following oral sex techniques are going to drive her wild. Once again, make sure to pay attention to her reactions and body language at all times.

With her clitoris still exposed, give it quick little sucks by enveloping it with your mouth momentarily and releasing it. This will definitely have a positive effect on her entire body.

Next, take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it while you simultaneously flick your tongue over and around it. You can perform this oral technique very lightly or aggressively, depending on what she likes.

If you combine these oral sex techniques with your fingers, she will have a mind-blowing orgasm virtually every time.

Lastly, and we can’t stress this enough: Never bite any part of the vagina. Not only can it cause physical harm, but you’ll probably get thrown into the dog house. “

Use your fingers

There is nothing that a woman likes more than a multitalented man. And if you know how to use both your tongue and fingers at the same time, you will definitely become her oral sex king.

While you’re French kissing her clitoris, use your finger to rub it at the same time. If you can rub your stomach and pat your head at the same time, you might want to suck on her clitoris, penetrate her vagina and thrust repeatedly with your fingers.

Be careful not to lose sight of what you’re doing because the vagina is a very sensitive area and one wrong move can leave you hung out to dry. Keep up with what you’re doing to her. Make sure that you’re not thrusting your fingers too deep or too fast. You might also want to use your finger to rub her G-Spot; it’s not that big of a mystery as it’s a rough-feeling portion of flesh located on the anterior wall of the vagina.

The tongue’s the one

Use your tongue freely and don’t be afraid to venture into uncharted territory; the more relaxed you are, the more relaxed she will be. And perhaps you weren’t aware of this, but if your woman is a gusher, the feeling of her ejaculate flowing all over your mouth is one of the world’s greatest aphrodisiacs.

No one likes a slobbering idiot, so don’t lose your mind while you’re in her sacred garden. Don’t start drooling all over her vagina and don’t do random things when you’re giving her oral sex. Always have a strategy when you’re going down and an escape plan, just in case you hit a foul ball.

Lastly, and we can’t stress this enough: Never bite any part of the vagina. Not only can it cause physical harm, but you’ll probably get thrown into the dog house.

Useful positions

In order to make your oral buffet as comfortable and as enjoyable as possible, have your lady lie on her back with her legs spread apart and her knees slightly bent. Get on your stomach between her legs and slide your arms under her legs. Your head ends up comfortably facing your oral objective. Wrap your arms around her legs and you’ll have perfect access to her vagina, which allows you to manipulate it with your fingers.

You can also lie down in the same position and place both of your hands under her behind, elevating it so that it comes directly to your face. Although this requires a little more strength and requires both your hands, it can be very pleasurable for your woman.

Finally, you can bring her behind to the edge of the bed while you give her oral sex. Have her rest her feet on your shoulders or on the edge of the bed as well, and you’ll have plenty of access while you kneel in front of her. This position will also give your fingers full access to her vagina.

bon appetit

There you have it — some of the basics to giving her oral sex. Of course this isn’t a definitive oral sex guide, but it’s a good place to start. There are plenty of other positions and techniques that you can try; the ones here are just some of the more comfortable positions. Remember: Don’t be shy, be gentle, take your time, experiment, and have fun.

Article Source: Askmen.com

Hopefully a few of those tips schooled you a bit and you learned how to orally please your woman.

One tip which isn’t mentioned in the article is anticipation.

Remember the first time you knew your about to dip your stick into the honey pot.

The anticipation you felt…well let her feel the same about oral sex. Make her anticipate it and crave it.

When you head down there, don’t jump right in and start lapping away like a thirsty dog.

Take your time and hover around her love mound. Graze her thighs with your tongue, suck and nibble on them. Let your nose graze her pubic hair.

Make her want your next move to be a tongue dive off her clitoris, the more she anticipates it, the more she’ll enjoy it.

And if she enjoys it. Imagine how she’ll repay you!

- R.T.

Read these other tips to discover how to rock your girl in bed…

• How to Make Women Come and Have Better Orgasms
• Amazingly Simple Ways to Please Your Girlfriend Orally
• How to Transform Your Sex Life

Some times the best way to bring pleasure to women with the clitoris is simply by using the areas around it.  After all…it’s way to sensitive to torque it like a lug nut.

It’s why I wanted to reveal three clitoral massage techniques you can try tonight.

• You know by now oral sex can be almost like an hypnotic spell in bringing women to orgasm. Most men swan dive between a womens legs and begin bathing them with their tongue. Instead of diving right in and tweaking her hood ornament. You should begin by drawing slow circles around her clitoris and then try drawing a line from the top of her clitoris to the labia and moving up on the other side, while avoiding direct contact with it. Always allow her time to warm up and become excited before you begin making direct contact with it.

• This method is one of my favorite…first make sure you have some water based lubricant to dab on your fingers. While in the missionary position, allow your self some space to use your hands. Move up a little higher and to either side of her. As you penetrate her, reach down with your fingers which have the lubricant and begin massaging her clitoris gently and in rhythmic circles.

• Another clitoral massage technique you should test out is when she is nearing orgasm. Whether having sex or oral sex, reach down with your hand and begin moving her clitoris in a up and down motion. It’s critical she is nearing orgasm and is properly warmed up, this should push her over the brink and into ecstasy.

Some key things to keep in mind.

Use lubricants whenever you can.

Avoid direct contact with the clitoris until she is warmed up.

Be delicate and gently, it has over 6,000 nerve endings.

It’s still possible and all is not lost just yet.

If you’re stuck in a sexless marriage, then hopefully this will help you rekindle the flames of passion and build a better sex life between you and your wife.

Many times in life we are thrown a curve ball and unexpected things happen. One of those is the lost of passion in a relationship.

Most long term relationships suffer from a loss of intimacy and intensity as the bonds of intimacy are broken from stress, children, and everything life can throw your way.

It’s critically important when you are not receiving sexual gratification from your partner or the amount of sex you enjoy…to open up the lines of communication.

Once you are able to discuss these issues openly then the process of healing those broken bonds begin.

And you may even be at fault.

Some men forget about how passionate they were and the type of affection they showed at the onset of marriage.

As the wife feels the passion seeping from the relationship she starts to distance herself from the closeness of the relationship.

Or it could be you’re not making her feel special or doing the things which made her happy.

Women in general love to be showered with affection, the more the better. As you do these little things to make her happy, she will be more likely to repay in some fashion and hopefully with sex.

And it could all boil down to your lack of competency in the sack. If this may be the case or your unsure of your ability to sexually pleasure her in bed. Then I suggest reading Orgasmology. I ran across this last week and it reveals the secrets and sexual techniques to giving women more pleasure in bed.

If you have been lacking sex in your marriage, don’t give up hope.

Begin by pin pointing  the root cause and discussing with your wife the reasons she does not like to participate in sex.

Even though she may be hesitant to discuss these issues, it’s important to openly discuss them in order to resolve them.

- R.T.

Then you’re smart enough to realize how pleasuring a woman sexually can lead to more sex and a closer connection with your lover.

Let me share with you three tips to rock her world and make her legs quiver in pleasure.

The techniques I am going to reveal are not all my own. I learned several by reading the Virtuoso Lover.

1. Oral sex is one way to blow her mind and produce multiple orgasms in woman. But, you want to make sure your performing it correctly. Too many times when men head down under they immediately start flicking away at her hood ornament. You should realize she is hyper sensitive down there. So begin by tracing circles around her clitoris with slow soft circles with your tongue.
2. Add this position to your love making and you will surely give her more pleasure. All you need is a dab of  water based lubricant and rhythm and you will make her orgasm. While in the missionary position, reach down with your hand and begin making circles around her clitoris softly. Make sure you dab a little lubricant on your finger to reduce friction.
3. Use her g spot to bring her more satisfaction. If you use coital alignment techniques which target the g spot you will find two ways to stimulate her and drive her crazy in bed.

Learning how to give a woman an orgasm begins by understanding her body and how sensitive her genitalia can be during sex.

Slow down and take your time and maximize her pleasure.

- R.T.

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Once you unlock the secrets to the female orgasm you’ll trigger some deep emotional desires which will make her crave orgasms and more sex.

Most men find the entire  process of making a woman orgasm very confusing and completely frustrating.

Women are so different than us, we can orgasm rather easily and 99% of the time we’ll have one.

But our pleasure rarely leads to a better sexual experience for your them.

It’s why I wanted to share one of my more unique methods…

….so you can learn how to make a women come.

Understand if she is not in the proper mind frame it will be very difficult to bring her to orgasms.

So I’m assuming you’ve had some foreplay and have prepared her for a passionate night of sex.

What you want to do is have her lay on her side with her back  facing you. Then you will want to pick up her top leg and get between her. Now enter her from this position.

Now this position will do little to stimulate her clitoris…

…So  now have her roll back about a quarter of the way.

This will allow you the space to manually stimulate her clitoris with your hand.

Take a water based lubricant and place a small amount of it on your index and middle finger.

Take your fingers and place her clitoris between the two fingers.

While thrusting…Move your fingers in a circular motion until she comes.

Pretty simple and highly effective for giving women orgasms. Almost as good

as Orgasm on Command, which on it’s own is a great method.

Try this technique out and see if it’s doesn’t help your lover come easier.

Good luck,

- R.T.

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For women, sex ends in two different ways.

1. “Oh my God can you please do that again!!!!”

or

2. “Seriously, what is he doing?”

The problem is that if your lover is more of  a “just-get-it-over-with” girl, odds are she

• Wont want to do it very often
• Will look for better options elsewhere

If you want to enjoy more sex and increase her pleasure, I recommend that you start
acting now!

A great way to do it is through Gabrielle Moore’s  awesome G Spot Code. Check it out at:

The G Spot Code

Gabrielle is a good friend of mine and an expert on female intimacy. Believe me…she knows what she’s talking about!

Why should you check out her secrets to throbbing orgasms?

Because she is an expert on the female orgasm and the pleasure principles women love.

- R.T. Bucher

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It’s true.

“Women’s orgasm frequency increases with the income of their partner,” said Dr Thomas Pollet, the Newcastle University psychologist behind the research.

Apparently the pleasures of women run deeper than the techniques we employ to bring them to orgasm.

Studies suggest the thicker the wallet, the more frequently a women orgasms.

So what the hell is the other 95% of the male population going to do.

Get better at it, so these guys don’t start stealing all of our women.

And getting better starts with training found in the Virtuoso Lover.

When you have the ability to give her orgasms the size of your wallet will matter little.

Apparently some “gold diggers” have this inherently implanted in their head that rich men make better lovers.

Here read all about here. Wealthy Men Give Women More Orgasms

- R.T.

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Once you read every word in this post you will see how it’s possible when you crank up her libido and spark off the psychological triggers I’ll reveal.

Anyone who has ever dived into the topic of psychology and what makes people tick knows it’s about our perceptions of other people and how we view them at any particular moment.

If you’re not sure where I am heading with all this psychological mumbo jumbo, don’t worry let me explain.

If you can learn to trigger and emotional response in you’re lover…the right response.

You can almost guarantee more sex than you can possibly imagine.

Think about it…

If you want more sex and have tried everything under the sun to make her crave you, but still have a listless sex life. Once you apply these triggers you can have it anytime of the day.

Warning: These tactics might make some of you queasy and might be a tad on the dark side, but oh man do they work like magic.

There are few psychological principles you will need to apply and once you understand how they work, it will be easier for you to implement them in your life.

The first one you need to learn is the law of reciprocation. It basically means when you go overboard and out of your way to help your partner. She will feel obligated to repay you and do something nice for you. This is a powerful way to gain her compliance often producing a ‘yes’ response.

The second one you need to learn is something called social proof.

Social proof is why readers of Cosmopolitan have more sex on average than the normal woman. They read about couples engaging in passionate sex and then crave it.

This isn’t always as easy to implement as the law of reciprocation but is highly effective when initiated.

You just have to paint her a picture.

If she realizes most couples are having sex and enjoying it more often, then she will begin wanting  want other woman have and enjoy.

My neighbor used to go on and on about his wife and her unwillingness to perform BJ’s on him. He used to complain to me all the time in our yard side beer chats. Then I clued him in on the social proof technique.

I told him to begin finding magazine articles about woman who loved doing it and leaving them around the bedroom so she could read how other woman liked giving them. I then told him to fabricate a few stories about his friends who have lovers who enjoy giving them.

In a few short days, his wife was more than willingly and since then has enjoyed them more.

These are just a few psychological ploys you can try to trigger a response in your lover for more sex.

And if these are a little to sneaky or sly….

….you can always try 500 Love Making Tips to invigorate her sex drive.

- R.T.