It's still possible and all is not lost just yet.

If you're stuck in a sexless marriage, then hopefully this will help you rekindle the flames of passion and build a better sex life between you and your wife.

Many times in life we are thrown a curve ball and unexpected things happen. One of those is the lost of passion in a relationship.

Most long term relationships suffer from a loss of intimacy and intensity as the bonds of intimacy are broken from stress, children, and everything life can throw your way.

It's critically important when you are not receiving sexual gratification from your partner or the amount of sex you enjoy...to open up the lines of communication.

Once you are able to discuss these issues openly then the process of healing those broken bonds begin.

And you may even be at fault.

Some men forget about how passionate they were and the type of affection they showed at the onset of marriage.

As the wife feels the passion seeping from the relationship she starts to distance herself from the closeness of the relationship.

Or it could be you're not making her feel special or doing the things which made her happy.

Women in general love to be showered with affection, the more the better. As you do these little things to make her happy, she will be more likely to repay in some fashion and hopefully with sex.

And it could all boil down to your lack of competency in the sack. If this may be the case or your unsure of your ability to sexually pleasure her in bed. Then I suggest reading Orgasmology. I ran across this last week and it reveals the secrets and sexual techniques to giving women more pleasure in bed.

If you have been lacking sex in your marriage, don't give up hope.

Begin by pin pointing  the root cause and discussing with your wife the reasons she does not like to participate in sex.

Even though she may be hesitant to discuss these issues, it's important to openly discuss them in order to resolve them.

- R.T.

Once you read every word in this post you will see how it's possible when you crank up her libido and spark off the psychological triggers I'll reveal.

Anyone who has ever dived into the topic of psychology and what makes people tick knows it's about our perceptions of other people and how we view them at any particular moment.

If you're not sure where I am heading with all this psychological mumbo jumbo, don't worry let me explain.

If you can learn to trigger and emotional response in you're lover...the right response.

You can almost guarantee more sex than you can possibly imagine.

Think about it...

If you want more sex and have tried everything under the sun to make her crave you, but still have a listless sex life. Once you apply these triggers you can have it anytime of the day.

Warning: These tactics might make some of you queasy and might be a tad on the dark side, but oh man do they work like magic.

There are few psychological principles you will need to apply and once you understand how they work, it will be easier for you to implement them in your life.

The first one you need to learn is the law of reciprocation. It basically means when you go overboard and out of your way to help your partner. She will feel obligated to repay you and do something nice for you. This is a powerful way to gain her compliance often producing a 'yes' response.

The second one you need to learn is something called social proof.

Social proof is why readers of Cosmopolitan have more sex on average than the normal woman. They read about couples engaging in passionate sex and then crave it.

This isn't always as easy to implement as the law of reciprocation but is highly effective when initiated.

You just have to paint her a picture.

If she realizes most couples are having sex and enjoying it more often, then she will begin wanting  want other woman have and enjoy.

My neighbor used to go on and on about his wife and her unwillingness to perform BJ's on him. He used to complain to me all the time in our yard side beer chats. Then I clued him in on the social proof technique.

I told him to begin finding magazine articles about woman who loved doing it and leaving them around the bedroom so she could read how other woman liked giving them. I then told him to fabricate a few stories about his friends who have lovers who enjoy giving them.

In a few short days, his wife was more than willingly and since then has enjoyed them more.

These are just a few psychological ploys you can try to trigger a response in your lover for more sex.

And if these are a little to sneaky or sly....

....you can always try 500 Love Making Tips to invigorate her sex drive.

- R.T.

Want a few exciting way to spice up a relationship?

Of course you do!

Falling into a dull monotonous routine is a cycle all deep and passionate relationships will fall into eventually.

It happens time from time.

Heading out for dinner and movie is so routine the longer you stay in a committed relationship.

...And can be downright boring if you don't SNAP the cycle.

Here are a few of the ways I have found to spice up my relationship:

• Instead of date night – Take a long drive out in the country with a picnic basket. Grab a bottle of your favorite wine and relax under a star lite sky. Bring some extra blankets in case things get a little sensuous.

• Staying in for the night? - Lay out some old sheets and pillows on the living room floor and take turns giving each other full body massages in the basking glow of candle lights.

• Work a little tiresome? - Find a local spot in town which has hourly hot tub or jacuzzi rentals and enjoy a warm soak with each other. A little champagne and a little ambiance and you will have each other primed for a night of scintillating love making.

Relationship need some spice injected into them every now and then.

You can even send her out to a bar and pretend you are a stranger picking her up.  Rent a motel room and enjoy hot passionate love making for the entire night.

When you feel you are starting to get stuck in a rut in your relationship and feel like it's time to spice things up a bit.

Read Ways to Spice Up a Relationship and discover some the best kept secrets to keeping the flames of passion roaring like a run away inferno!

- R.T.