Once you read every word in this post you will see how it's possible when you crank up her libido and spark off the psychological triggers I'll reveal.

Anyone who has ever dived into the topic of psychology and what makes people tick knows it's about our perceptions of other people and how we view them at any particular moment.

If you're not sure where I am heading with all this psychological mumbo jumbo, don't worry let me explain.

If you can learn to trigger and emotional response in you're lover...the right response.

You can almost guarantee more sex than you can possibly imagine.

Think about it...

If you want more sex and have tried everything under the sun to make her crave you, but still have a listless sex life. Once you apply these triggers you can have it anytime of the day.

Warning: These tactics might make some of you queasy and might be a tad on the dark side, but oh man do they work like magic.

There are few psychological principles you will need to apply and once you understand how they work, it will be easier for you to implement them in your life.

The first one you need to learn is the law of reciprocation. It basically means when you go overboard and out of your way to help your partner. She will feel obligated to repay you and do something nice for you. This is a powerful way to gain her compliance often producing a 'yes' response.

The second one you need to learn is something called social proof.

Social proof is why readers of Cosmopolitan have more sex on average than the normal woman. They read about couples engaging in passionate sex and then crave it.

This isn't always as easy to implement as the law of reciprocation but is highly effective when initiated.

You just have to paint her a picture.

If she realizes most couples are having sex and enjoying it more often, then she will begin wanting  want other woman have and enjoy.

My neighbor used to go on and on about his wife and her unwillingness to perform BJ's on him. He used to complain to me all the time in our yard side beer chats. Then I clued him in on the social proof technique.

I told him to begin finding magazine articles about woman who loved doing it and leaving them around the bedroom so she could read how other woman liked giving them. I then told him to fabricate a few stories about his friends who have lovers who enjoy giving them.

In a few short days, his wife was more than willingly and since then has enjoyed them more.

These are just a few psychological ploys you can try to trigger a response in your lover for more sex.

And if these are a little to sneaky or sly....

....you can always try 500 Love Making Tips to invigorate her sex drive.

- R.T.

• Then you better come correct.

Think back to the first the time you had sex....

Kinda of a scary feeling huh?

What about the first time you slept with your wife or girlfriend. If you were like most men you probably were a little nervous, even shaking a bit.

And of course the experience for both you and her was probably not how you imagined it.

As society evolves - More and more woman are being down right forward with their sexual wants and needs.

The more woman become open about what they need, the more confidence you will need to sexually please her.

Not having the proper knowledge or knowing the proper methods to give woman orgasms, can crush your confidence and leave her looking for someone to please her better. It may happen right now, but sooner or later it will.

And whether you like it or not, she is comparing you to every one of her past lovers.

So how do we have confidence in bed, even if we have never gave a woman an orgasm?

• Fake it.

That's right - Fake it.

The tone of your voice will reveal to her in a  very subtle way how much confidence you have.

The speed of your love making will also tell her if your are all about you or if you are willing to go slow and give her the desired pleasure she seeks.

The way you touch her is another tell tale sign of someone who is lacking confidence.

Men who are great lovers control the bedroom. They are the ones who are giving instructions.

Put it this way....

Let's say you want your woman to perform oral sex. And you have spent the last 10 minutes doing some heavy kissing and petting. You could ask her. "Can I please get a blow job? Or you can have some confidence and tell her to do it.

I saw Chis Rock the other night on the Comedy Channel explaining  this in his stand up routine. At one point he was trying to explain how to get your girl to do the nastiest things possible in bed.  He said woman will do almost anything if you know how to speak to them.

It's all about sounding and acting confident.

In order to display sexual confidence.

You better come correct.

Do I have your attention now?

What guy doesn't like a little hummer now and then?

Woman love to respond in kind when someone has done something nice for them or made them feel better about themselves. If you think back in time, you probably did something for her really cool or made her feel really special.

And if you noticed, you probably received something nice back from her.

Just the other day my wife ran out of the house to help out the neighbor who was having a problem starting  her lawn mower. Her husband was out of town of business and she was having problems getting it to start. So, my wife ran over there, pushed on the primer a few times and PRESTO! - That baby fired right up.

The next day, the next door neighbor brought over movie passes for us and asked if she could watch our daughter....

And it's all due to the law of reciprocation.

You're probably wondering right now how this all deals with sex?

Well if you have the ability to give your woman a sensational sexual experience and make her have a mind numbing, leg tingling orgasm. She will probably go out of her way to please you. Which means more sex and yes even better blow jobs.

Don't for sake this little law, when used properly, it can almost guarantee you more sex!

-R.T.