Female Orgasms

How to Make Her Come – A Step by Step Guide

How to Give Her an Orgasm

Is it really so hard to give a woman an orgasm? Many say it’s difficult but many men also claim that it’s very easy… IF you know what to do. So the question is, do you?

Any health, loving and lasting relationship counts a great sex life as a key ingredient. And if you look around you, it’s probably not hard to tell which couples are truly happy with each other. These are the couples that still look at each other with lust in their eyes! So what’s their secret? It’s probably because they are BOTH sexually satisfied in their relationship.

A lot of people know that women don’t reach an orgasm as easily or as quickly as men. What many don’t realize is that this does nothing but build sexual frustration. And sexual frustration manifests itself in many negative ways in a relationship; until one day, you both wake up and realize that you no longer have passion in each other and in your lives.

The good news is it’s really not hard at all to make a woman reach an orgasm. But you both have to work at it, which, if you think about it, is part of the fun as well!

How to Make Her ‘Come’ – A Step-by-Step Guide

You may find this step-by-step guide useful. It is one of the many tools that Gabrielle Moore, an expert on sex education has created. Click here to learn more about other tools by visiting her website…

Step 1

Engage in a lot of foreplay! Foreplay is very important because it helps her relax her mind and make her more focused on the lovemaking at hand. It’s also a great way to bond as many women associate foreplay as a man’s way of taking time and ensuring sex is not just a physical act but about intimacy.

Foreplay can start hours or even days in advance and is really limited only by your sexual imagination. As you keep this ‘sexual tension’ high, you’ll find that it’s actually easier to bring her to an orgasm once you do engage in sex.

Step 2

If foreplay is the ‘primer’, oral sex is the next big step. Many women actually claim that oral sex is the ONLY way they can reach an orgasm so if you both want it to be that way, then don’t resist.

When you do go down on her, don’t rush it. Show her that you really love her by lavishing her genitals with your undivided attention. Enjoy the journey as much as the destination so to speak.

At the start, just tease and lick softly and lovingly. Once she’s focused on that part of her body, increase the tempo. When you notice that her breathing is getting faster and harder or if her legs are becoming taut, move your attention to her clitoris. Tease it by drawing small circles around it with your tongue and then apply more pressure and lick faster.

If she gives any indication at all that she’s really turned on, remember this: DON’T change anything. Keep the tempo of what you’re doing and she’ll reach her orgasm soon enough.

Step 3

If your tongue doesn’t bring her to an immediate orgasm, don’t despair. Don’t forget that your fingers can be put to good use too! Use your index finger to ‘trace’ the outline of her labia. Be sure to touch her gently. This is guaranteed to electrify her body. After this, place your index and middle finger together and then draw circles around her clitoris.

Pay attention to her body (is it in a pleasured, relaxed state or is it pulled taut like a string?) to gauge just how turned on she is. Don’t forget to pay attention to her moans and groans as well.

You can alternate using your tongue and fingers to stimulate her clitoris and just like what’s advised above, if she indicates something that’s really turning her on, just keep doing it! To learn more about other techniques to stimulate her, click here…

Step 4

If clitoral stimulation has not brought on an orgasm yet, then try G-spot stimulation! Assuming that she’s already hot and wet, slowly insert your index and middle finger inside her womanhood, palm up. Once inside, position your fingers to the “11 o’clock”. Slowly try and locate a small bump or swelling (like an engorged clitoris). Once you find this spot, congratulations… you’ve located the elusive G-spot!

Step 5

You can stimulate the G-spot in many ways. You can tap it with your fingers, draw lazy or frenzied circles around it, or flick it wildly like a light switch. If you wish, you can use your thumb to stimulate her clitoris while stimulating her G-spot. This will surely give her an orgasm to be remembered! To learn more, click here…

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Does Penis Size Really Matter?

Remember Jack Palance in that old Skin Bracer commercial, he turns and looks into the camera and delivers the now famous, “Confidence is sexy, don’t you think?” line…

Woman want confident men, so…

Does Penis Size Really Matter?

I feel it’s time to finally put an end to this debate society has had for years…

Over 50% of men feel the size of their penis has direct correlation to amount of sexual pleasure a woman receives.

Let’s look at some facts.

According to a recent poll conducted by the journal ‘Psychology of Men and Masculinity’ the average size of 68% of the male population in 4-6.5 inches. Around 16% of men have bigger ones than 6.5 inches and the remaining have smaller ones, around 2.5 inches.

Almost 45% of men have reservations about their penis size. They look in the mirror and lose a bit of confidence looking at what they perceive as an inadequate penis.

And porno movies do little to help out the male ego when you consider some of the sizes of the male stars and how they seemingly dole out large amounts of sexual pleasure.

After all, if they are giving their co-stars such intense pleasure, it has to be the size of their penis right?

Well, not exactly.

There are some woman who feel a bigger penis brings more pleasure, while many could care less about it.

Some experts even believe a longer narrower type tends to leave woman unsatisfied while a shorter thicker penis delivers more pleasure. They believe the shorter ones have the ability to cause less pain than the longer penis.

And by now you should know, deeper is not always better.

So to answer the question Does Penis Size Really Matter?

There is no true answer, but just complexities which each woman and man share.

It all depends on the womans point of view and how the male views his penis size.

My belief is there is nothing wrong desiring a bigger and thicker cock.

As long as the woman you are pleasing doesn’t mind the added size.

Let’s get real for a sec?

What guy wouldn’t want a bigger dick?

It can boost your confidence and that fact alone can contribute to you being more confident in bed, which will allow you to give your woman more pleasure.

Ask any woman, they want a man of full confidence both in and out of the bedroom.

As Jack would say, “Confidence is very sexy, don’t you think?”

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6 Core Reasons Woman Have Trouble Climaxing

According to various reports up to 68% of women never reach an orgasm during intercourse.

Should we always place the blame on men?

Well I have some great news for ya today!

It’s not always our fault guys.

There are six reasons which have been recently identified which may hinder your woman’s sexual experiences and stop her from having orgasms.

Foreplay – I don’t want to shock you, but even with proper amounts of foreplay she might not be ready for a rocking good time. Women in general need to be conditioned mentally to enjoy foreplay. If they are not in tuned with what you are trying to accomplish, no amount of it will help.
Women multi-task. Odds are you are totally focused on the act of love making. It’s what we do as guys. We stay in the moment way better than the opposite sex. Even though we may be intently focused on sex, her mind might be elsewhere, thinking about other tasks and responsibilities.
She worries to much. She is thinking about her body, the way her hair looks, the way you look. She’s wondering if what she is doing is really bringing you pleasure. When her mind is racing like this, how the heck is she going to focus on the pleasure you’re trying to give her. She can’t !
She lacks communication skill in bed. Man it would be nice if we could read a womens mind? Well not all the time, but it would be nice to know what she actually wanted when having sex. But she might not have the ability to communicate exactly what she needs.
You’re changing techniques to fast. It’s not all about location. The rhythm you are using when performing oral sex and intercourse needs to be maintained. Her focus will be clearer and she can easily match your tempo.
She is not comfortable with her body. Not all women are comfortable with their bodies and understand exactly how to use their body to help you stimulate her.

As you can see, it’s not always our fault and many factors dictate how much pleasure a women receives during sex.

So the next time you are trying to bring your woman to orgasm, keep these things in mind if she doesn’t seem like she is receiving satisfaction.

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3 Tips To Help Your Wife Orgasm

You want to help your wife orgasm so she enjoys sex with you more often, am I correct? What man wouldn’t enjoy more sex, even as we age our sexual desires rarely slow down.

The biggest problem with sexual relationships bound by marriage are dull love making routines. Even though we try to avoid it, we end up in the same positions and use the same techniques over and over.

Try these three tips and see if you find it easier to sexually pleasure your wife.

Spice it up a bit! No need to continue performing the same sexual position nightly with your wife. Help her out and try new positions and techniques. This manual 500 Love Making Tips gives some great ways to add a little variety to your sex life.
Move out of the bedroom. I know you can’t try other places around the house if children are present and she might not be willing to have sex out in public. Well, here is a suggestion. Take a blanket and a pillow and take a long drive out in the country at sunset. Find a nice quiet field and allow yourselves a little privacy.
Ask if you can watch her masturbate. You can learn to copy her techniques and see how she pleasures herself. The next time you make love it will be easier to give her an orgasm. Just by seeing what she enjoys.

And if all else fails – Ask her exactly what she wants sexually from you, the open dialogue might help her achieve sexual satisfaction.

Till next time,

R.T.

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How to Give a Vaginal Orgasm

Surely you have fumbled around with her clit and gave her a orgasm which made her feet tingle. Most men believe the real measure of a man is sending woman into ecstasy with a vaginal orgasm. Seems easy enough, until you realize you will need to stimulate her G Spot.

Most men have found the G Spot to be a mysterious little hot button. Some can finangle it like a magician, others try only unable to quite understand it’s unique characteristics.

And for those of you who don’t understand the female vagina, if she lacks strong pc mucles, it decreases your odds of giving her a vaginal orgasm.

Now let’s just imagine your woman has the strongest muscles on earth, her veejay is the super woman of vagina’s. Do you know where to find the G Spot?

It’s there trust me, about inch or two inside the top wall, you will feel a soft spongy like tissue. It will feel totally different from the surrounding skin. Once you locate it you have two choices, rub on it with one or two fingers in a come hither motion. Or, you can lightly tap on it, and I don’t mean tap it like a drum. Lightly and gently use your fingers to stimulate it.

And if all else fails ask for her guidance in what feels best down there. Don’t be ashamed to probe around and test her sensitivity.

Just because no one drew us a treasure map, it shouldn’t stop us from finding the gold.

Best of luck,