Now imagine the nasty little tricks she’d turn for you as an act of repayment.

Go ahead and read this article I found and as a reward for staying tuned to it. I will reveal a secret  you use to learn how to orally pleasure your woman tonight.

By David Strovny

Giving Her Oral Sex

What You Need To Know

• Never bite a woman’s vagina – ever.
• Use your tongue and fingers to maximize stimulation.
• Always have an exit strategy in case you panic down there.

“When you begin to give her oral sex, it’s important to start slowly.”

Women often complain about men’s ability to perform cunnilingus or, as it’s more commonly called, oral sex. There are hundreds of men who write us asking for advice on how to give her oral sex. We can only imagine the millions of others who stand like a possum caught in headlights when it comes to the task. As such, we thought it was time to give readers a more in-depth look into the vagina and the amazing things that guys (and gals) can do to it with their tongues.

The following oral sex techniques are a simple guide to teaching all of you the basics of “eating out.”
If you’re not much of a vaginal vacuum and are hesitant to try oral sex because of odors or whatever other preconceived notions that you have, ensuring that she has just come out of the shower will ease your tension and you’ll be able to let loose orally. There are men who stand their ground and absolutely refuse to perform oral sex; we suggest you get over yourself, because your girl likes to receive oral sex as much as you consider a good blow job a part of foreplay.

Tongue to lips

Any licking, gentle sucking or all-around moisture from the mouth to the vaginal entrance, the labia (lips) or the clitoris will surely make you popular with your flavor of the evening.

When you begin to give her oral sex, it’s important to start slowly. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. What she won’t like is an overachiever who jumps right in with an aggressive tongue. Pretend that her entire vagina is an ice-cream cone with three scoops of your favorite flavor; if you don’t like ice cream, we’re sure you can still appreciate the metaphor. Use your tongue to lick her vagina from its entrance up to the clitoris. Remember to chill out and relax; enjoy yourself and don’t get tense.

Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer labia on one side. Once you’ve done that, draw her lips into your mouth and massage them with your tongue. And since the other side will probably get jealous, move on to the other side afterward.

Oral exploration

Were you aware that the tongue is the body’s strongest muscle? Well imagine what you could do with your tongue if you were giving her oral sex. Since you have more control with your tongue than with your penis, the sensations will drive her crazy.

Not only is your tongue naturally lubricated with saliva, you can maneuver it in ways that a penis never could. So why not use your tongue to have sex with her? Thrust your tongue in and out of her vagina, and take a break from time to time to explore her insides.

While you’re roaming around down there, vary your cadence and the firmness of your tongue. Use your firm, flexed tongue for pinpoint accuracy, such as when you circle the clitoris, and use a limber, flat tongue to cover more ground.

Remember to continuously return to her clitoris since most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation — especially when it comes to oral sex. However, don’t apply too much pressure to her clitoris right away because it may irritate her and turn her off. Start out gently and increase pressure and speed according to her body language.

Above all, have fun down there when you’re giving her oral sex, and keep her on her toes (or off as the case may be).

Intense vaginal volume

When you have her as hot as a lioness in heat, the following oral sex techniques are going to drive her wild. Once again, make sure to pay attention to her reactions and body language at all times.

With her clitoris still exposed, give it quick little sucks by enveloping it with your mouth momentarily and releasing it. This will definitely have a positive effect on her entire body.

Next, take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it while you simultaneously flick your tongue over and around it. You can perform this oral technique very lightly or aggressively, depending on what she likes.

If you combine these oral sex techniques with your fingers, she will have a mind-blowing orgasm virtually every time.

Lastly, and we can’t stress this enough: Never bite any part of the vagina. Not only can it cause physical harm, but you’ll probably get thrown into the dog house. “

Use your fingers

There is nothing that a woman likes more than a multitalented man. And if you know how to use both your tongue and fingers at the same time, you will definitely become her oral sex king.

While you’re French kissing her clitoris, use your finger to rub it at the same time. If you can rub your stomach and pat your head at the same time, you might want to suck on her clitoris, penetrate her vagina and thrust repeatedly with your fingers.

Be careful not to lose sight of what you’re doing because the vagina is a very sensitive area and one wrong move can leave you hung out to dry. Keep up with what you’re doing to her. Make sure that you’re not thrusting your fingers too deep or too fast. You might also want to use your finger to rub her G-Spot; it’s not that big of a mystery as it’s a rough-feeling portion of flesh located on the anterior wall of the vagina.

The tongue’s the one

Use your tongue freely and don’t be afraid to venture into uncharted territory; the more relaxed you are, the more relaxed she will be. And perhaps you weren’t aware of this, but if your woman is a gusher, the feeling of her ejaculate flowing all over your mouth is one of the world’s greatest aphrodisiacs.

No one likes a slobbering idiot, so don’t lose your mind while you’re in her sacred garden. Don’t start drooling all over her vagina and don’t do random things when you’re giving her oral sex. Always have a strategy when you’re going down and an escape plan, just in case you hit a foul ball.

Lastly, and we can’t stress this enough: Never bite any part of the vagina. Not only can it cause physical harm, but you’ll probably get thrown into the dog house.

Useful positions

In order to make your oral buffet as comfortable and as enjoyable as possible, have your lady lie on her back with her legs spread apart and her knees slightly bent. Get on your stomach between her legs and slide your arms under her legs. Your head ends up comfortably facing your oral objective. Wrap your arms around her legs and you’ll have perfect access to her vagina, which allows you to manipulate it with your fingers.

You can also lie down in the same position and place both of your hands under her behind, elevating it so that it comes directly to your face. Although this requires a little more strength and requires both your hands, it can be very pleasurable for your woman.

Finally, you can bring her behind to the edge of the bed while you give her oral sex. Have her rest her feet on your shoulders or on the edge of the bed as well, and you’ll have plenty of access while you kneel in front of her. This position will also give your fingers full access to her vagina.

bon appetit

There you have it — some of the basics to giving her oral sex. Of course this isn’t a definitive oral sex guide, but it’s a good place to start. There are plenty of other positions and techniques that you can try; the ones here are just some of the more comfortable positions. Remember: Don’t be shy, be gentle, take your time, experiment, and have fun.

Article Source: Askmen.com

Hopefully a few of those tips schooled you a bit and you learned how to orally please your woman.

One tip which isn’t mentioned in the article is anticipation.

Remember the first time you knew your about to dip your stick into the honey pot.

The anticipation you felt…well let her feel the same about oral sex. Make her anticipate it and crave it.

When you head down there, don’t jump right in and start lapping away like a thirsty dog.

Take your time and hover around her love mound. Graze her thighs with your tongue, suck and nibble on them. Let your nose graze her pubic hair.

Make her want your next move to be a tongue dive off her clitoris, the more she anticipates it, the more she’ll enjoy it.

And if she enjoys it. Imagine how she’ll repay you!

- R.T.

Read these other tips to discover how to rock your girl in bed…

• How to Make Women Come and Have Better Orgasms
• Amazingly Simple Ways to Please Your Girlfriend Orally
• How to Transform Your Sex Life

You might not hear it and she sure as hell will not tell you.

To her friends she might mention it…

…but inside she is thinking, “What the heck is he doing down there?

Are your oral sex techniques not making her thighs quake and her toes curl?

You’re not alone.

Many men have trouble bringing a woman to orgasm with their mouths.

It seems so easy…

…lick a few times and she should be ready to claw your back and shred your sheets in pleasure.

But there she lays, barely moving a muscle.

Well if you’re not sure what your doing when you head down to the honey hole, then this post is for you.

One of the easiest ways to give her an orgasm is via clitoral stimulation.

It’s not rocket science!

But damn do we struggle with it.

Using oral sex techniques can almost be astonishingly easy to make her roar with pleasure.

And I want to reveal a few tricks you can start using tonight, some of these are revealed in Lick by Lick, the definitive guide to cunnilingus.

• The Tease – You have to rev up her motor before you start the race. When you go down on a women make sure to linger at her inner thighs a bit. Go ahead and playfully nibble at them, use soft kisses and every once in awhile hover over clitoris and let your breath make her anticipate your next move.

• Circles of Magic – If you have ever watched a women masturbate you will notice they rub themselves with slow circles. The more aroused they become the faster the circles. You need to mimic these movements with your tongue.

• Lip Lock – Don’t forget about the outer part of her labia. Go ahead and gently suck on her vagina lips. It will give her a different sensation than the clitoris. Move around and target different areas down there and see what she likes.

Once you start using these tips, she will not secretly think your lame down there. She will twitch in ecstasy and you might get the kind of reaction you have been waiting for.

When she pulls her knees up and starts making more space for you down there…

…then you know your oral sex techniques  are delivering the pleasure she’ll rave to her friends about.

- R.T.

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I had the chance to overhear a conversation at a local coffee shop between four woman just the other day. It was the kinda place where one couch sits in front of a crackling fire place and soft bean bag like chairs  sporadically dot the room. The whir of the espresso machines keeps the air filled with just enough background noise. A perfect place to kick back with a drink and soak up the atmosphere and a hell of a place if you want to eavesdrop on woman and their gossip circles.

So I was a little surprised when I overheard this group of woman in their late twenties begin talking about sex and how they lacked competent men.

One woman called  her man a two pump chump, which  got me a little miffed. And another said her guy is so awkward at giving cunnilingus, she said it felt like he was trying to play darts with her clitoris….

They went on and on for at least fifteen minutes about their men and their deficiencies. I wanted to walk over there and explain to them that no one has ever given us lessons or pointed out the finer details of oral sex or love making.

And you know exactly what I am talking about, our sex ed classes basically revolved around anatomy and what happens when you stick your doo hickey somewhere without protection. But I bit my tongue and let the moment pass me.

But it got me thinking…..

If these typical suburban woman were living their lives sexually unsatisfied there had to be a lot of men who simply don’t understand the proper techniques to orally pleasuring woman. And from my research, it boils down to two reasons.

1. Our ego tells us daily how great we are and it sometimes  builds false confidence when it comes to our  love making skills.  After all, we had the confidence to meet and start a relationship with our woman, so we  must be great lovers?
2. Some guys just don’t know how to give woman pleasure and the techniques to make them orgasm.

It’s why I thought I would share three methods you can start using tonight to orally please woman with cunnilingus. I learned most of these by reading Lick by Lick which kinda explains everything you need to know about oral sex and the best cunnilingus instructions.

• The primary target of oral sex will always be the clitoris, it’s the magic hot button which if stimulated correctly can be the gateway to sensational orgasms for woman. When going down the #1 thing you must understand is to never make direct contact with it. It has countless nerve endings, some say over 6,000. So it’s critical you be a little delicate with your fingers and tongue.
• Trace circles around the clitoris with your tongue, it’s not a bulls eye on a dart board. The outer rings are where you should place your focus. Move very slowly around it! Most woman are more sensitive on one side than the other, so find the side she is most sensitive and place your focus on it.
• Last longer down there by not allowing your tongue to stick out too far. How many of us have given oral sex to our woman, only to wake up the next day with a tongue which felt like it had been pulled on all night? I know I have.

And by all means once she has become aroused properly then you should start directly stimulating her clitoris directly with quick flicks of your tongue, while still using your tongue to trace circles around her clit.

Don’t go down there for five minutes and expect magic to happen. We all know woman take a hell of a lot longer than us to become aroused. And even more time to orgasm.

You must be willing to head down there with the intentions of staying there till she climaxes.

How important is it you become a good at oral sex?

I happened to rent the movie “I Love You Man” on Friday night. It’s about this loner guy who is desperate to find a best man for his upcoming wedding. In the earlier minutes of the movie, he pops the question to his girlfriend, course she says yes. And like all woman she had to immediately call her friends from the car phone. Her friends were excited for her and started to explain to her she needed to “lock that tongue down”. Apparently he was very capable at pleasuring her with oral sex, so much so, she shared all the intimate details with her friends.

As you can see it’s very important you learn the secrets to giving oral sex like those taught in Lick by Lick.

I surely wouldn’t want to be one of those guys whose girl gossips about and tells everyone you have no skills in the sack. Why not be the one they brag about with mind numbing cunnilingus skills. The better you are at it, the more sex you’ll likely get and she might just return the favor with more blow jobs!