How to Boost Your Sexual Confidence
Sep 22nd, 2009 by R.T. Bucher
Want your woman to enjoy sex just as much as you?
- Then you better come correct.
Think back to the first the time you had sex....
Kinda of a scary feeling huh?
What about the first time you slept with your wife or girlfriend. If you were like most men you probably were a little nervous, even shaking a bit.
And of course the experience for both you and her was probably not how you imagined it.
As society evolves - More and more woman are being down right forward with their sexual wants and needs.
The more woman become open about what they need, the more confidence you will need to sexually please her.
Not having the proper knowledge or knowing the proper methods to give woman orgasms, can crush your confidence and leave her looking for someone to please her better. It may happen right now, but sooner or later it will.
And whether you like it or not, she is comparing you to every one of her past lovers.
So how do we have confidence in bed, even if we have never gave a woman an orgasm?
- Fake it.
That's right - Fake it.
The tone of your voice will reveal to her in a very subtle way how much confidence you have.
The speed of your love making will also tell her if your are all about you or if you are willing to go slow and give her the desired pleasure she seeks.
The way you touch her is another tell tale sign of someone who is lacking confidence.
Men who are great lovers control the bedroom. They are the ones who are giving instructions.
Put it this way....
Let's say you want your woman to perform oral sex. And you have spent the last 10 minutes doing some heavy kissing and petting. You could ask her. "Can I please get a blow job? Or you can have some confidence and tell her to do it.
I saw Chis Rock the other night on the Comedy Channel explaining this in his stand up routine. At one point he was trying to explain how to get your girl to do the nastiest things possible in bed. He said woman will do almost anything if you know how to speak to them.
It's all about sounding and acting confident.
In order to display sexual confidence.
You better come correct.
















